Monday, July 27, 2009

Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses th

paid for in just 15 years, retirement at 50. While some ppl like me have thinning hair and have to wear a weave, a plain old brown skin complexion, no paychecks, can barely get a job making 10 bucks an hour. If I do own a home it will take 70 yrs. to pay for it %26amp; I won't be able to retire until I'm 100, if %26amp; when I find decent job.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

Show me a personson who has all of that at one time (without having to pay to get it) .... which ultimately means they really didn't have it like you thought.



Thinning hair but not bald... still able to afford getting a weave so no one knows....no such thing as a plain old brown skin complextion..... do you have healthy skin or are you covered in sores and do you realize how many of those people who have everything pay so much money to have the plain old brown skin you have by tanning....you have paychecks just no extra money to spend beyond what you already use from them (food, shelter, a weave, a computer, an internet connection...etc).......10.00 bucks an hour is better than standing on a corner waiting for the truck to come pick you up for 5.00 per day.....I'd rather pay 70 years to own my own home than to pay 70 years rent so that someone else can have the nice nice hair etc......and don't feel bad the way our country is going none of us will ever be able to reach the retirement age as we know it now.



So there... I think you are doing pretty well at least for today, I pray you wake up and do as well tomorrow.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

do you have an education?



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

When we are young, we are told that we can do and be anything we want to be as long as we work hard for it, but - that is a lie. Some people bust their backs all their lives and end up with absolutely nothing to show for it while others seem to have it all fall into their hands without seeming to make much of an effort. I don't know why that is, but - it's the way life goes. Nothing is fair, is it?



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

I don't know honey- because the world is severely unfair. Why are rich people above the law??



All you can do is try to find comfort in what you do have and try to be humble with what you've got. Try and be a good person.



If you feel depressed talk to your doctor and get on a course of meds. It doesn't seem so bad then.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

Go to college, graduate, get a good paying job and save money.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

Don't it suck but look at the brighter side, you could be living under a bridge and praying some one throws out an old sandwich out the car window so you can eat.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

Other than the hair and skin most of them got off their butts and earned it.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

we are all who we are for a reason.



those people who you think have 'perfect' lives really don't.



no one does.



no one, in my opinion, has a better or easier life than anyone else.



people who have to work for something, like you, and aren't just handed it, those are the people that make differences.



you have experience and compassion.



people with 'perfect' lives don't udnerstand others misfortune, and that, to me, is misfortunate in itself.



cheer up, God loves you =]



i wish you all the best luck.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

People in the first case are blessed and smart, I would think, because they went to school and got professionally prepared.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

its becuase people along time ago were really really selfish secular humanists and have over time suppressed more "everyday" people like me and you...dont worry about all that material stuff or you will go insane like the people that have it.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

i think its also from the generation too



i mean, like they used to have great mortage- their grand2 parents leave them lumpsum of land or money or even bussiness - so they can start faster than others...



i do feel sometimes like you too... working all this time, but nothing happen.



so tired, but suicide is not an option - but go on with living also i found it so hard ..



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

the reality of life is a bi***. Some people are meant to do the crap work will others go on to be better off. We have the opportunity when we are young but most people blow off there responsibility's. Then they blame others. But that is the way it works.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

combination of genetics and environment



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

Moxie's got it right! Education is not the ticket to all you seek either, as a lot of people who never completed school are successful. What you need to do is look a little deeper into these peoples lives. It has been my experience through the walk of life, that things are not always as they seem to be! These people might seem like they have all the material wealth that one could desire, but yet are very unhappy and miserable with their lives, you know the saying money can not buy happiness. Also in life I have noticed that these people are delt totally different cards than us, and when they get a bad one which they sooner or later will, it is pretty bad! Like the Smarts having their daughter Elizabeth kidnapped. Look at Princes Diana's life and death, i would not want to be her for nothing! There are a million examples I could give you, but I think you get my point. So don't worry try your best and above all be happy! Careful what you wish for, it might come with a price you can not afford or would want to pay!!



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

Don't fret over it !! this people are new souls and are given a nice cushy first life .... they will be coming back many lives over , until they learn all they have to learn .



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

First off, are u serious? It sounds like a joke to me....



But I'll humor u



If u want a better paying job, and u don't want to go to college I suggest u get vocational training for a specialized area (such as cosmetology school or medical assistant training), or try and start a business (Beauty supply store or hell, even basketweaving, idunno). But a bachelor's degree from a 4 yr university increases ur salary, and post-grad degrees increase ur salary even more. If u have an attitude that u cannot be successful in life, u won't be. But if u sit down and form a plan, success can happen.



Also, as for the thinning hair, I don't know if u wear a relaxer, but if u do, THAT is why u have thin hair. Relaxers damage your hair, its a chemical. Thats why it BURNS when u put it on.



Your natural hair is beautiful and GOD-given. So is your skin. It is kissed by the sun. It keeps your appearance youthful and your skin wrinkle-free. It ages slower and every color clothing u wear compliments ur skin tone. So just love urself and get to a Barnes and Nobles to get a book on best careers for 2007....or get on Hotjobs.com ASAP



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

Nice nice hair, skin, paychecks, jobs, houses... Mostly come from an ability to conform to society. So what these people gain from these nice things is lost in another area I believe. And thats spirituality. Of course you can have these things and still be spiritualy charged but it is hard imo. I know one of these nice nice people and that person would be my mom. Painfuly honestly I have to say this but if there is a gate at heaven that picks who goes and who does not she will be on the short list of who goes unless I have anything to say about it. This is however not what I believe so I think she will make it just perhaps not as fast as others to what she considers heaven now.



I think its more important how you live your life spiritualy then how you live it materialisticly in that respect you really should not worry about these kinds of things very much imo. The money aspect to me is important in the respect that I want as much money as I can handle inorder to help me help others. But I want as lil as I need to accomplish this goal. That is a fairly small amount of money. I personaly do not worry about retirement so that saves me some moneys and is possibly a mistake. Education is key but you must have actualy learned from it and you can get education worth a college degree on the streets if wise enoth.



I hope I helped somehow :)



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

Unfairness is a difficult thing to accept. Contrary to what you may have been told, all things are not equal. Despite notions of being in control of life and your choices, there are people who are liked and people respond to them. There are others who are not as well liked and do not do as well as others.



We don't exist in a vacuum. Other people contribute to our success and our lack of success. Being "liked" is one of the biases that all of us face and for a variety of reasons.



The bank manager who likes you will approval your mortgage. If you have a dislikeable trait, the manager will turn you down. As to physical appearance, that is in part due to genetics. Look at your family and your ancestors on that one.



You are likely eligible for many things in life, but lack the information necessary to make changes in your life. And that assumes that you would actually to make those changes.



It is very easy to base our perceptions about the future (hopelessness) based on our conceptualizations of the present.



Overall, I think what you might be experiencing is known as envy. Envy is tricky and its helpful to have a real sense of another's life before we envy anything that they have.



Why do some ppl have the nice nice hair, the nice skin, the nice paychecks, the nice jobs, houses that are?

well, some people get the good end of the gene pool, and others don't. it's that damn bell curve, some are short, some are tall, some have what we would consider ugly features, and others pretty. it's a tad in the eye of the beholder, but society really, has told us, looks wise, what pretty is......otherwise, it's just our lots in life. everyone has an opportunity to better them selves, but some start out at a much better start. everyone can't be rich, otherwise it wouldn't be considered rich, and all the prices would go up, and then u'd be a part of the lower class, and be poor again. anyway, only u can really change your life. 'life is ten percent what u make it, and ninety percent how u take it'...just cuz someone is rich, doesn't mean they are happy, or have fulfilment. that's what u have to strive for in life--basically there are disadvantages and advantages in everyone's life, and all i can say about the money problem is that u have to have an education in our country, to really make any money. at least we're in a democratic and free-market country, and u have a chance at making a better life! and even though u have thinning, someone else has no hair, and has cancer, so it's always better to concentrate on what u do have, not what u want

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